| 1 |
I am un-reactive to, and unaffected by, external frames and vibes, though not in an unfriendly way. I come across as solid. |
| 2 |
I have the same relaxed and comfortable attitudes and movements that I would have if I were in my own house vibing with a few of my close friends. |
| 3 |
I don't have an agenda. When I interact with people, I don't need, or try to force, any specific outcome. Good things happen to me all the time anyway. |
| 4 |
I am carefree and drama-free. Nothing is ever that big of a deal to me. Whatever happens, my first response is usually 'No Big Deal.' |
| 5 |
I'm not trying to impress. I'm not trying to get something. I'm not trying at all. I don't have to try. In fact, I'm not even in that headspace. I am in my own headspace instead of having it dictated to me by others. |
| 6 |
I'm not needy or clingy, nor do I hover. Women don't complain about hovering with me, instead they complain about me rolling off. |
| 7 |
I don't stare. I know that overly demonstrating interest is not attractive or romantic, but instead comes across as weird, creepy, or even scary. |
| 8 |
I am perfectly occupied in my own reality. I find stimulation and value in my own reality, instead of seeking value and stimulation from others in the venue. |
| 9 |
I feel a total willingness to walk away. It's not that I am trying to punish but rather as if I have my own priorities. I have a lot of options. Sometimes I get distracted, but I'm never trying to be rude. |
| 10 |
I don't explain myself or argue over things - it just doesn't matter enough to me. |
| 11 |
I'm not even in need of the understanding of others. Though it never comes across in a rude way, it's just not important enough to me even to finish my own sentence. |
| 12 |
I have no need for validation, or acceptance, or approval. Paradoxically, such feelings are more and more my normal experience. |
| 13 |
As an example of my level of confidence and comfort, I'm perfectly willing to 'throw someone a bone' socially, such as apologizing even when I'm really not in the wrong, just to keep things running smoothly and to keep the moral high ground. This apology wouldn't come off in any way as though I were actually at fault, but rather it would come across as though the whole thing is just not that big a deal to me. It also doesn't come off as insulting. The vibe is genuine and not in any way passive-aggressive. I do this to give people the escape route of plausible deniability so that they can always save face and still be cool with me. |
| 14 |
I am unconditional and non-judgemental. It's as if I am holding standards for myself instead of holding them against other people. Of course I must prioritize my time but I do it with a positive attitude, and never in a way that would make people feel unaccepted or scorned. |
| 15 |
I'm not sarcastic or passive-aggressive. Sarcasm is sneering, jesting, or mocking at a person. It is a type of verbal irony intended to insult or wound. The use of sarcasm is viewed as an expression of concealed annoyance or anger - Get over it. |
| 16 |
I allow people to have their natural responses without taking it personally. I'm not caught up in the matrix of emotion. I recognize and accept the underlying pattern in human behavior. |
| 17 |
In my own mind, I put away negative or overly reactive thoughts, statements, or humor. |
| 18 |
I also disregard such vibes when they come from others. I neither contribute negative feelings to the vibe, nor do I react to them from other people, or feed into them, or even acknowledge them. |
| 19 |
'But she was being a bitch.' There is nothing powerful, per se, about keeping your cool when other people are cool. The power comes from maintaining serenity when people are a bitch. Compare this to ethics: Ethics gain meaning when they are tested. Your value flows from your vibe, and so does hers. Her being a bitch, ultimately, only reflects onto her, and your response only reflects onto you. If your ghost comes out at these times, much power and value is conveyed. |
| 20 |
I feel good emotions. Life is such an amazing gift. I am always happy, smiling, laughing with my friends, and dancing to the music. This is not only the best possible vibe, but it's also a powerful indicator that I am successful in other areas of life. |
| 21 |
I always make a positive contribution to every social interaction. I want to create a fun and stimulating vibe that everyone can enjoy. I always seem to have the most amazing experiences with the coolest people, because of the energy that I put into my social interactions. |
| 22 |
I spread good feelings to others. I shine the warmth of my charisma so that it fills the space all around and draws people to me. I make them feel good about me and I make them feel good about themselves. I acknowledge people, I show them respect, and I make them feel appreciated. |
| 23 |
I am fun, exciting, and playful. Girls often describe me as 'crazy' (in a good way.) I like to keep them on their toes. |
| 24 |
I know that my personality is attractive and genuinely liked, and so I don't feel like I have anything to hide. Because of this, people feel that I am open and sincere, that I am being 'real.' |
| 25 |
I am continually making things happen. That's my role. I am proactive. I am a risk-taker. I escalate. I lead things in a natural and fun way - and I never come across as pushy. |
| 26 |
I am perfectly fine with rejection and I don't take it personally. Most girls push me away the first time I go to kiss them anyway, as a normal matter of course. |
| 27 |
I am comfortable expressing my feeling, without fear of looking bad. I can laugh at myself and I don't take things too seriously. |
| 28 |
I am a very social guy. I start conversations, and I introduce people around. I am the guy who introduces everyone to everyone else. |
| 29 |
I have a lot to bring to the table. I radiate the energy, humor, and creativity necessary to keep things fun and stimulating. Why? That's just the kind of guy that I am. |
| 30 |
If I am escalating physically with a girl (for example, going for a kiss) and then I feel that she is resistant or disinterested, I am perfectly ok with that. I know that is no big deal. I just roll off of her and then return to escalate again. That's my job. |
| 31 |
I practice my storytelling, sound bites, delivery, humor, body rocking, vibe, group theory, and frame control. I am all about adding value. |
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